Turkey’s identity is uniquely shaped by its position at the crossroads of Europe and Asia. Straddling two continents, Turkey has been called “a Turkic person” and “Turkish” in a single word – and Turks often speak of a “Turkic world” stretching “from the Adriatic Sea to the Great Wall of China”. In practical terms, nearly 75% of Turkey’s 85-million population are ethnic Turks; Kurds form roughly 19%; and other groups (Armenians, Arabs, Assyrians, and more) make up the rest. Turks trace their lineage to Central Asian nomads, but centuries of Greek, Roman, Byzantine and Ottoman rule have left a rich legacy. This history created a society where East meets West – a largely Muslim nation governed by a secular constitution, with Orthodox churches, synagogues and mosques coexisting. In fact, Turkey’s 1982 constitution explicitly declares the country is democratic, secular and “the state and its institutions are based on the principle of … republic and democracy” with no official religion. Over 90% of Turks are Muslims (mostly Sunni), yet ataturk’s reforms and subsequent laws emphasize active neutrality of the state toward religion.
Cultural identity varies sharply by region. In the northwest (near the Balkans and Greece), towns and villages still reflect centuries of migration from the Balkans. Visitors there often note that Ottoman-era mosques coexist with cuisine, music and architecture that feel Balkan or Mediterranean. In contrast, southeastern Turkey – sharing borders with Syria, Iraq and Iran – has an ambience more akin to the Levant and the Caucasus. Linguistic and culinary traditions, dress and music often echo those of Kurdish, Arab or Armenian cultures. In either direction, the mix can seem surprising: Turkey is sometimes described as the “most Occidental eastern country and the most Oriental western one.” Regardless of region, one constant is Islam in daily life, but even this is diverse. A significant minority – Alevi Muslims – practice a syncretic faith blending Shiite and ancient Turkic shamanic rituals. Estimates put Alevis at roughly 10–20% of Turkey’s population. Alevis often emphasize progressive interpretations of Islam and maintain distinct rituals and places of gathering. Other faiths have deep roots here too: Turkey’s remaining Greek Orthodox, Armenian Apostolic, Syriac Orthodox, Jewish and Catholic communities are small (on the order of tens of thousands) but historically significant. For example, fewer than 3,000 Greek Orthodox Christians live mostly in Istanbul today, and roughly 14,000 Jews remain, yet their ancient churches and synagogues stand as monuments to Turkey’s multi-religious past.
Turkish national culture also embraces a broader “Turkic” ethos. Many Turks see their country as a leader of the wider Turkic world, a concept once described by a popular slogan as stretching “from the Adriatic Sea to the Great Wall of China”. This Pan-Turkic sentiment – fostered by historical ties to Central Asia – appears in education, media and foreign policy. Turkey is a founding member of the Organization of Turkic States, and it actively cultivates economic and cultural bonds with Azerbaijan, Kazakhstan, Uzbekistan and other Turkic nations. (Azerbaijan, with which Turkey claims “two states, one nation,” is a particularly close partner in politics and energy.) While the old irredentist visions of Pan-Turkism have largely faded, Ankara’s diplomacy still underscores shared language, history and identity among Turkic peoples.
Everyday life in Turkey is infused with layers of tradition. Family and hospitality rank very high. The Turkish word misafirperverlik (roughly, “hospitality”) is considered a core virtue. Guests are treated with great honor: it is common for Turks to invite even new acquaintances into their homes for tea or a meal. (Refusing an offer once or twice is polite; the host is expected to insist three times to show sincerity.) On entering a Turkish home, one should always take off shoes – hosts often provide slippers, and wearing shoes indoors is viewed as rude. Guests are typically offered tea (in tulip-shaped glasses) immediately upon arrival. Common practice is to accept graciously the tea or water offered, as it signals respect. Likewise, bringing a small gift when invited – often pastries, fruit, chocolates or flowers – is thoughtful. One should not bring alcohol unless the host is known to drink; many Turks are conservative about alcohol, so offering it can be taken the wrong way. Often no gift is expected beyond your company, but modest offerings show courtesy.
Respect for elders is ingrained in social etiquette. Young people nearly always stand when an elder enters a room, and will offer their seat on a bus or café table to seniors, pregnant women or people with children. Politeness and deference to older people are seen as manners on a fundamental moral level. When greeting an older Turk or someone in authority, a subtle show of respect is common: for instance, it is traditional (in more conservative settings) to kiss an elder’s hand and then touch it to your forehead. In conversation, titles are used formally (“Bey” for men, “Hanım” for women, similar to Mr./Ms.) along with the first name or the person’s professional title if known. (Among business or academic circles, addressing someone as “Professor Ayşe” or “Dr. Mehmet” is customary.) In casual contexts, Turks of roughly the same generation or friends greet each other with a kiss on each cheek (regardless of gender) or a gentle embrace, but such informal physical greetings should be reserved for those you know. Otherwise, a handshake is appropriate – Turks generally prefer a soft, brief handshake rather than a bone-crusher. When meeting a Turkish woman in a formal context, a man should wait to see if she offers her hand first (some observant women may decline a man’s handshake).
Learning a few words of Turkish is deeply appreciated. A simple “Merhaba” (Hello) or “Teşekkür ederim” (Thank you) goes a long way. Many Turks recognize that their language has unique sounds (like ğ or ü) and rhythm, so they generally value any effort by visitors to speak even halting phrases. Using a few Turkish words not only fosters goodwill, it demonstrates respect for the culture.
Ramadan and other observances. One of the most important markers of daily life is the Islamic holy month of Ramadan. During Ramadan, most Muslim Turks fast from dawn until sunset. It is a month of introspection, charity and community. Practically speaking, travelers should note the dates when planning a trip: Ramadan 2025 is expected to run from March 1 to March 29. During Ramadan, many restaurants and cafés close or offer only take-out during daylight hours; shops and offices may alter opening times around prayer. At sunset, the fast is broken with iftar, the evening meal often shared with family or friends. Even if you are not fasting, common courtesy requires that you avoid eating, drinking or smoking in public during daylight. Most Turks will not expect foreigners to fast, but eating or drinking openly in front of those who are fasting can be considered insensitive. It is best to eat discreetly (e.g. inside a shop or away from crowds) until nightfall. Conversely, visitors are welcome to join iftar meals (many restaurants host public iftars) or simply partake in the nightly hospitality—tables of free snacks and tea are often laid out in mosques and public squares. In short, Ramadan imbues the country with a respectful, communal atmosphere: meeting the Azan (call to prayer) each evening and then breaking bread with others is an experience that many travelers remember.
Besides Ramadan, other religious festivals are observed. The major national holidays are secular or historical (Republic Day on October 29, etc.), but Muslim festivals like Eid al-Fitr (the end of Ramadan) and Eid al-Adha (the Feast of Sacrifice) are widely celebrated. Non-Muslim holidays (e.g. Orthodox Easter, Christmas for the small Christian community, Jewish holidays) occur quietly in respective communities. Most travelers won’t encounter specific issues with festivals, but shops or public offices may be closed on major national days and religious holidays.
Hospitality and tea culture. Across Turkey, the offering of tea (çay) is emblematic of kindness and hospitality. People often brew tulip-shaped glasses of strong black tea for guests, customers, even strangers. If you are walking through a village or sitting in a shop, expect to be offered tea; accepting it is polite (after perhaps modestly declining once or twice). Turks often say “Çayın yanına şeker…” – implying sugar cubes to taste – when serving it. Coffee (kahve), often Turkish coffee, is also common, especially in homes or tribal regions. Declining all invitations to drink tea or coffee is rarely done; it’s part of the friendly rapport building in Turkey. In a market or bazaar, a shopkeeper may beckon you to sit and talk over tea while you peruse goods.
Understanding local customs and taboos will help visitors navigate social interactions respectfully. Turks are generally warm and forgiving of honest mistakes, but there are certain topics and gestures best avoided.
Politics and national symbols. Discussions of politics can be sensitive. The pride Turks feel in their nation, history and institutions means criticisms (especially by foreigners) can cause offense. Legally, Turkey has strict laws against “insulting Turkishness.” For example, Article 301 of the Penal Code makes it illegal to publicly denigrate Turkey, the Turkish nation, government institutions or national heroes (like Atatürk). In practice, it means casual derogatory comments about the state or flag can even attract legal consequences. Even when joking, avoid disparaging remarks about the Turkish flag, the national anthem or founding leaders. It is also considered deeply disrespectful to refuse a Turkish national anthem or to mishandle the flag; such acts can provoke public outrage or worse.
Some historical issues are extremely sensitive. For instance, the events of 1915 (Armenian community’s fate) are controversial. Large parts of Turkish society strongly resent labeling this period as “genocide,” and it remains a taboo subject that even locals may avoid or contest. The Kurdish issue and regional separatism (e.g. the PKK conflict) is another complex topic; speaking without full understanding can quickly lead to heated debate. Similarly, the status of Cyprus is an emotional issue in Turkey. Unless you are very well-informed, it is safest to steer clear of these debates or to listen more than speak.
National identity. It is important to respect how Turks identify themselves. For example, not all Turkish citizens like being called “Middle Easterners,” “Arabs” or even “Europeans” – they are Turks and proud of their distinct identity. Referring to Istanbul as a Mediterranean city or Turkey as “in the Middle East” might mischaracterize its self-view (many Turks see the country as uniquely bridging regions). It’s rarely helpful to assume connections between Turks and other groups; calling a Turk “Arabic” or “Persian” can cause offense. On the other hand, compliments on the history of Istanbul or the legacy of Atatürk tend to be well-received.
Religion and gender interactions. Although Turkey is majority Muslim, secular life is the norm in public areas. One should still show basic respect for religious norms. During Ramadan (see above), avoid eating or drinking in public. In more conservative towns, women sometimes wear headscarves or modest dress; male travelers in mosques and rural areas should likewise dress modestly (long pants, no sleeveless shirts).
When greeting, be mindful of customary modesty. Among devout Muslims, a man and woman who do not know each other well may not shake hands: wait to see if a handshake is offered. This is especially true if one wears religious dress or a headscarf. In many urban, secular contexts (Istanbul, Izmir), cross-gender handshakes are common; but in conservative areas, wait for the Turkish person to initiate any contact. It is always polite to ask “Selamün aleyküm” (a traditional greeting) or “Memnun oldum” (Pleased to meet you) in business or formal contexts, paired with a nod or slight bow of the head.
Daily manners. Turks place a premium on personal courtesy. For example, common Western habits like blowing one’s nose at the table or picking one’s teeth in public are considered very rude. When dining, do not rest your elbows on the table or prop your feet on chairs – it is impolite to show the soles of your shoes or to cross legs in a way that points a shoe at someone. Chewing gum while speaking to someone, or touching someone’s head without permission (heads are considered personal, even sacred) are also frowned upon. It is best to keep a moderate distance in conversation with strangers and to refrain from overly loud behavior in public. Speaking quietly on the phone in public or avoiding shouting at taxi drivers will help you blend in with local norms.
In public spaces, Turks generally value decorum. Public displays of affection (holding hands, kissing on the street) are far less common than in many Western countries. In large cities and resorts one may see more relaxed behavior, but in small towns and traditional districts even kissing your spouse can draw disapproving looks. On the other hand, polite behavior like giving up your seat on a bus to an elderly person or offering a hand to someone struggling with luggage is instantly noticed and appreciated. Smiling at strangers is not as typical as in some cultures; Turks often smile warmly once you have spoken or been introduced, but a broad grin at a stranger might confuse or embarrass them.
Turkey’s mosques and churches are open to visitors and many travelers find them highlights of the trip. However, proper decorum is essential. Even in secular Turkey, mosques are active houses of worship and should be treated with reverence.
Dress code. Modesty of dress is required. Men should wear long pants (no shorts) and sleeved shirts when entering a mosque. Women must cover their hair with a scarf (most mosques provide scarves at the entrance) and wear clothing that covers shoulders and knees. A light shawl or scarf is sufficient – you do not need a full-body cloak. Avoid any provocative or overly tight clothing. These rules apply to all mosque areas, including courtyards.
Footwear. Always remove your shoes before stepping into the carpeted areas of a mosque. Usually there are shelves or bags for storing shoes. This custom keeps the prayer space clean and is a gesture of respect. (If you forget, there is no shame – just quietly remove them and tuck your socks on.) In a mosque, keep your socks clean – in many cases Turkish hosts or mosques even provide disposable foot covers or plastic bags if needed.
Behavior inside. Mosques should be quiet and respectful. Keep voices low and turn off mobile phones. Do not eat, drink or smoke inside. Walking through the mosque to sightsee is fine outside of prayer times, but when a prayer session begins, visitors should stand to the side or leave until it ends. Tourists may join a prayer if they wish, but it is not required; one can simply observe. (If you do wish to pray along, avoid interjecting motions into the rows of worshippers and stay toward the back.) Women should step aside from the main prayer rows; men normally pray at the front. Avoid posing for photographs of people praying or staging selfies inside – it is considered disrespectful.
Timing and tips. Mosques generally welcome visitors outside of the five daily prayer times. Many tourist-frequented mosques in Istanbul or tourist areas stay open most of the day, but in very rural regions some may close between noon and afternoon prayers. If in doubt, check opening hours with a local guide or at the mosque’s entrance. Always head to more famous sites (like the Blue Mosque in Istanbul) well before prayer times or lines can form – local advice or signage will usually indicate prayer schedules. When the adhan (call to prayer) is announced, pause and listen; even if you are a non-Muslim tourist, it’s customary to stop and show silence and respect for the moment.
Other faiths. If visiting Christian churches, synagogues or temples, similar modesty and respect apply. Covering legs and shoulders, speaking softly, and not smoking or eating are good practices in any house of worship. Asking politely before taking photos is wise everywhere – even outside, some sites (especially religious monuments) may restrict photography. In mixed urban contexts like Istanbul, one can often tour old churches or synagogues, but many have limited hours of operation.
Aside from formal etiquette, some informal cultural “rules” can help travelers avoid awkward moments:
In general, Turks are proud, courteous people. Travelers who show patience, listen quietly, and ask politely when unsure will almost always be forgiven for minor slip-ups. The guiding principle is respect: behaving “the Turkish way” is about honoring others’ dignity, whether that means offering food several times to guests (don’t be surprised if your host insists you eat more) or greeting someone you just met in a village with respect and modesty. By taking cues from locals and following basic politesse, visitors often find that Turks reciprocate in kind – the warmth and generosity rewarded many travelers who tried to fit in.
Beyond cultural norms, some practical tips help smooth daily life:
Turkey’s stance toward LGBT travelers is complex. Legally, homosexuality has never been illegal in Turkey (it was decriminalized during Ottoman times in 1858), and private same-sex conduct is not criminalized today. However, Turkey does not recognize same-sex marriages or civil partnerships, and there are no laws specifically protecting LGBT people from discrimination. In practice, major cities like Istanbul, Ankara and Izmir have lively LGBT-friendly venues and some legal tolerance (pride parades were held annually from 2003 to 2014). The LGBTQ community is increasingly visible in urban areas, with bars, clubs and social organizations catering to gay and lesbian people.
Cultural attitudes are still generally conservative, especially outside Istanbul. In big cities, younger Turks tend to be more accepting, and Istanbul’s Dolapdere district has a prominent gay bar scene. Even so, public displays of affection between same-sex couples can provoke stares or admonitions in many parts of the country. Gay travelers often report that if they keep a low profile about their relationships and behave discreetly (just as heterosexual couples do in public), they can enjoy most areas without incident. However, open discussion of sexual orientation in rural regions or with unfamiliar locals can lead to discomfort or confrontation. The simple rule of traveling applies: be observant of local norms, gauge the environment, and use common sense.
Legally, it’s important to note that, as of 2023, Turkey has no general anti-discrimination law covering sexual orientation or gender identity. Although Turkish courts are not charging consensual gay sex, some conservative politicians and the media still stigmatize LGBT people. Violence or harassment specifically for sexual orientation is relatively rare, but not unheard of. Some LGBT tourists choose to stay in accommodations known to be gay-friendly or book through agencies that cater to LGBT travelers, to ensure an openly welcoming environment. In short, Turkey is not considered extremely dangerous for gay or lesbian travelers, but it is not as openly accepting as much of Western Europe. Discretion and respect for local sentiment are advisable, especially outside major cosmopolitan zones.
Turkish business culture values long-term relationships and personal trust over quick transactions. First meetings often focus on getting to know each other rather than sealing deals. Be patient and personable. Before discussing specifics, Turkish partners typically engage in generous small talk. Topics like family, history, or even the local cuisine are common ice-breakers. It’s customary to schedule meetings well in advance (often 1–2 weeks ahead) and confirm by phone. Many professionals will share information on titles and roles beforehand, so it’s wise to know the position of each person you’ll meet. In general, Turks expect foreigners to be punctual even if they themselves may be late; a meeting might start hours behind schedule, but foreign guests are still expected to arrive on time.
Introductions involve a handshake (again, waiting for a woman to offer first). Maintain direct eye contact and use titles (Mr./Ms. or professional title) when addressing colleagues. Turkish people often smile less at first meeting than Westerners do, so a serious but friendly demeanor is normal. Exchanging business cards is common, and cards should be accepted with both hands or the right hand; if your card has English only, consider having the key side printed in Turkish as a courtesy.
Negotiation. When talks begin, expect the process to be slow and deliberate. Turks may start negotiations with extreme positions (very high price or very long timeline) – this is a known tactic to gauge your flexibility. Patience is key: do not push for quick answers or final agreements. Decisions will often await multiple rounds of meetings and socializing. It is normal and expected that the ultimate decision-maker is a senior person in the company or family. You may first meet junior managers, then gradually be introduced to higher officials only once trust is built. Throughout negotiations, show respect for hierarchy: older or higher-ranking people often speak first in a group, and you should allow this without interruption.
Politeness is important in meetings. It is customary to accept offers of refreshments during discussions, even if only bottled water or tea. Do not criticize your hosts’ ideas or proposals too bluntly; instead, ask questions or suggest alternatives diplomatically. Turks pride themselves on hospitality, and good hosts in business often take care to provide a comfortable environment (offering meals, showing you the best of their office). Responding with gratitude – a simple “thank you, this is very helpful” – is appreciated.
Hierarchy and Titles. In Turkey, age and rank are respected. Always address the most senior person in the room first, and use formal speech (title + name or patronymic) until invited to do otherwise. Slang or first names alone are generally not appropriate in initial meetings. However, once a strong rapport is formed, the atmosphere may become more informal. Social gatherings after work are common and build rapport, but even then, casual dress down too far is usually avoided in formal business settings.
Turkey’s communications infrastructure is modern and traveler-friendly. Mobile coverage is ubiquitous – according to official data, mobile-cellular subscriptions exceed 93 per 100 people. Nearly everyone (city and countryside alike) uses a smartphone on one of the three major networks: Turkcell, Vodafone-Turkey, or Türk Telekom. All offer prepaid SIM cards and tourist plans. In 2025, expect to pay on the order of 1,000–1,500 Turkish lira (about $30–45) for a one-month SIM package with several gigabytes of data. (SIM cards can be bought at airports, kiosks or provider stores – airport prices are usually higher, so comparing city shops can save a bit.) Once you have a Turkish SIM, you’ll use it just as at home – the international dialing code is +90. Turkish area codes are always three digits; for example, Istanbul’s European side is (212) and the Asian side (216). When calling within Turkey, prefix any area code with a “0” (e.g. 0-212-xxx-xxxx).
If staying longer, note that Turkish law requires foreign mobile phones to be registered or they may be blocked after 120 days. Registration involves a sizable fee, so many long-stay visitors simply buy a local phone.
Emergency services are easy to reach. Dial 112 for all emergencies (ambulance, fire, police) – it works even without a credit phone or SIM. You can also dial specific lines: 155 for police, 110 for fire, 156 for gendarmerie (rural police), and 117 for forest fires. These lines offer service in English to varying degrees.
Postal services (PTT) cover the country. Post offices are yellow-and-black and often open evenings in big cities. Sending mail or packages internationally is straightforward but allow extra time for customs if the value is over about €150. Turkish postal codes are five digits (e.g. 34100) and are called “posta kodu”. If you plan to use poste restante (general delivery), write “POSTE RESTANTE” along with the city district and postal code.
Internet access: Wi-Fi is widespread in hotels, cafés and restaurants. In Istanbul and other large cities, most hotels (even budget ones) offer free Wi-Fi, and many cafés display a network. Istanbul’s city government has also provided free public Wi-Fi in parks and main squares, and public transit (buses, metros, ferries) offers free or paid internet on board. So it’s usually easy to stay online. For faster or guaranteed connection, travelers often buy portable Wi-Fi hotspots (mifi devices) that can link multiple devices to 4G. High-speed 5G networks are rolling out in major cities as of 2024.
On internet censorship: Turkey does block certain websites or social media content on occasion (usually sites critical of the government or illegally shared copyrighted media). Main platforms like Facebook, Twitter and Instagram are generally accessible, though users have reported occasional throttling or temporary bans. Video call services (Zoom, Skype) work normally for travelers. If you need fully open access (for example, to news outlets sometimes blocked locally), consider using a VPN. Many tech-savvy Turks use VPNs for privacy and access.
Utilities and power. Standard voltage is 220V AC (European plug). USB charging ports are common in newer hotels; otherwise bring a Type F adapter (round prongs). Tap water is generally safe to drink in big cities (chlorinated), but in rural areas bottled water is recommended. Drinking Turkish tea or coffee is a common way to stay hydrated anyway!
Turkey can be surprisingly affordable. Costs depend on style of travel, but approximate daily budgets for one person (excluding international airfare) are: $50–70 for backpacker/economy, $120–160 for mid-range, and $300+ for luxury. For example, BudgetYourTrip estimates a budget traveler at around $57/day (TL2300) and a mid-range traveler about $141/day (TL5707). Here are some typical costs:
To budget accurately, note that Turkey’s prices can rise with inflation, and credit card readers may not always show prices in USD. Always ask or check digital boards for up-to-date costs. Bargaining or price-checking for taxis and tours is common – if you feel a rate is high, try another provider or politely negotiate.
Currency Tip: If you change money, compare airport rates (usually poor) with city banks or official exchange offices (döviz). ATMs are common, but watch fees. Many travelers advise carrying both some USD or EUR (exchangeable) and getting lira as needed. Credit cards are accepted in most mid-size establishments and larger shops.
Every traveler should know who to call or contact if problems arise:
Keep copies of your important documents (passport, insurance) separate from the originals, in case of loss. Save emergency numbers and your hotel’s address in your phone. With this preparation, you can focus on enjoying Turkey; most travelers report that Turks will go out of their way to assist visitors in distress.
Always check up-to-date travel advisories before your trip. Turkey’s situation can evolve (politically or geologically), so rely on government updates. But rest assured, tens of millions visit yearly with memorable experiences. With the insights above – from packing and safety to cultural notes and itinerary ideas – you’ll be well-prepared to explore this fascinating, warm-hearted country.
Turkey is a land of striking contrasts and warm people. From the misty dawn calls to prayer echoing over Istanbul’s skyline to the laughter around a shared dinner table in Anatolia, the country offers travelers a chance to live in a crossroads of history. A visitor who observes Turkish customs with respect—by greeting elders courteously, dressing modestly at religious sites, and avoiding sensitive topics—will usually be met with generosity. Foreigners who sit down to family meals or who politely attempt to speak even a little Turkish often find themselves adopted as honorary locals. In this country of bustling bazaars and tranquil villages, one lesson is clear: respect and humility go a long way. By honoring Turkish traditions—whether by modest dress in a mosque, silence during Ramadan daytime, or simple kindness toward strangers—travelers gain deeper insight into the Turkish way of life. As one Istanbul taxi driver said to a traveler who apologized for a cultural slip: “We are forgiving people. We are happy to teach.”
In short, Turkey is a mosaic of cultures. Its modern cities and ancient ruins alike demand curiosity and consideration. If you remember the common courtesies here—a handshake or kiss on the cheek, a gifted gratitude, a respectful question instead of an assumption—you may find that the true treasure of Turkey is the warmth of its people. Travelers who embrace Turkish hospitality, admire its monuments, and navigate its customs with care will discover a far richer experience than any guidebook can list, and will come home with not just photos of mosques and mountains but a real understanding of why Turkey’s traditions endure.