How To Get In Turkey

What to Wear: Turkey is largely a secular, modern country, but it is still conservative by Western urban standards. In cosmopolitan cities like Istanbul, you’ll see people dressed as in Europe (though even there, flashy revealing outfits are rare). As a tourist, pack lightweight, modest clothing. Think shirts that cover shoulders and above-knee skirts or shorts – this is respectful enough for city sightseeing. Save swimwear for beaches and pools only. If you plan to visit a village or rural area, lean more conservative (long trousers and tops).

When entering religious sites (see below), you must dress respectfully: no sleeveless tops, shorts, or skirts above the knee. Women should cover shoulders and upper arms, and wearing a scarf to cover hair is required in most mosques (though some famous ones lend you a wrap). Men should wear long pants (or modest shorts) and not take off their shirts. In short: if in doubt, cover up. The practical rule is simple: dress as if you are attending someone’s conservative family gathering. A light scarf and long skirt or pants in your daypack will do wonders if you need them unexpectedly. Notably, flats or sturdy shoes are advisable – the streets and mosque interiors can have uneven terrain or steep steps.

Mosque Etiquette: Visiting Turkey’s majestic mosques (like Sultanahmet, Süleymaniye, Selimiye) is a highlight, but they are active places of worship. The local travel advice is clear: dress modestly and behave respectfully. That means: remove your shoes before entering (and store them on provided racks), sit or stand quietly during prayers, and turn off flash on cameras. Do not enter during the five daily prayer calls (you’ll hear the azan broadcast from loudspeakers) – come a bit later so you don’t interrupt worshippers. Women should cover their heads with a scarf (most tourist mosques provide free headscarves at the entrance if needed) and make sure shoulders and knees are covered. Men should at least wear a sleeved shirt. If you really have no scarf, you can improvise with a light jacket’s hood, but better to carry one.

In the mosque, keep your voice low and move slowly. If someone invites you to sit for tea in the mosque courtyard, that’s just hospitality – but usually polite for tourists to decline as you’re expected to move along unless you’re invited by a local. In terms of photography, you may take pictures of architecture, but ask permission before photographing anyone praying. Some mosques strictly forbid photos altogether (look for the no-camera sign) – follow the rules indicated.

Language & Local Phrases: Turkish is the official language, and many younger people and those in tourism speak at least basic English. Still, it’s endearing to learn a few Turkish words. Simple greetings like “Merhaba!” (Hello) and “Günaydın” (Good morning) go a long way. “Teşekkür ederim” (pronounced “teh-sheh-kewr ederm”) means “Thank you” – keep a pair of those words handy. “Lütfen” (please) and “Evet”/“Hayır” (yes/no) are also very useful. Turks love to see foreigners try their language; it earns smiles and often better service. Even a quick “teşekkürler” when handed your tea or change is noticed. If you find yourself in a market bargaining, start with a friendly “Uygun mu acaba?” (“Is it possible [to lower the price]?”) rather than just haggling. Overall, a little Turkish phrasebook or app adds warmth to interactions.

Hospitality & Tea: Be warned: in Turkey, tea (çay) is much more than a drink – it’s a symbol of hospitality. “Never say no to a glass of tea (or food) when offered,” advises one cultural etiquette guide. When you enter a shop, a friend’s house, or even as you browse in the Grand Bazaar, someone will likely insist on pouring you a small tulip-shaped glass of strong black tea. This is their way of welcoming you. It can feel awkward to refuse, so just accept one cup. You don’t have to drink it all if you don’t want; sipping a few gulps and handing it back “sonra” (later) is perfectly fine. Refusing drinks or food, by the way, can be seen as rude – the guide notes it “can easily be misconstrued” as impolite. So, embrace it: when offered çay or treats, smile and say “Evet, teşekkürler.” (Yes, thank you.) This simple rule can open doors to conversation and new friendships. The tea ritual is a charming part of Turkish life – enjoy being a guest in this tradition.

Getting to Know Locals: Turks are generally curious and proud of their culture. You’ll often find strangers eager to practice English with you, share their family stories, or even offer help if you look lost (don’t be surprised if someone helps carry your luggage at the train station). In my travels I’ve experienced time and again that most Turks welcome foreigners warmly. Of course, every society has its quirks; urban Turkey is safe for tourists, and ordinary people tend to respond with genuine friendliness. Common courtesy goes both ways: a smile and some simple Turkish words convey respect and are always met with warmth. Avoid discussing sensitive political topics or criticizing the government; stick to travel talk. Outside of major cities, aim to dress more modestly and be aware of local customs. But know that Turkish hospitality is real: in markets you might be invited to try a snack, or in a village a family might insist you join a meal. Take these gestures at face value. By showing respect for etiquette and returning politeness, you’ll find getting to know Turks one of the trip’s most rewarding experiences.